[VIDEO TRANSCRIPT] Hi, this is Elizabeth Cottrell with Heartspoken.com. I believe we are hardwired for connection and that connecting with others is one of life's essential connections. And I also believe that one of the most powerful connection tools is a very simple, affordable, often overlooked, and quite old-fashioned tool: pen and paper.
So, in this newsletter, I want to hold your hand, guide you, inspire you, and help you to embrace the power of note writing, because I believe that you, too, can write notes that connect, encourage, comfort, and inspire.
Thanks for joining me. [END VIDEO TRANSCRIPT]
The heartspoken letter that changed everything
(An excerpt from my book)
A letter from a stranger was the lightning bolt that changed my appreciation for the potential of personal notes forever; from that day on, I saw them as a force for good in the world.
I’ve always written notes, because that’s what we were taught to do when I was growing up in the 1950s. I learned the skill from my mother and both my grandmothers. They all wrote beautiful notes. It was expected. It was good manners.
But the day I received that letter, I suddenly realized it was so much more.
The letter was from a woman devastated by the loss of her son:
“I truly appreciated the encouraging letter you sent my son’s fiancée after my son took his own life. She shared it with me, and it came during one of the most difficult and testing times of my life. I know I have read your note over 25 times; it was a lifeline which kept my spirits up.”
What on earth had I written that could have meant so much to this woman? Her son’s fiancé was a neighbor of mine and only a casual acquaintance. I only remember, upon hearing the news of this man’s tragic death, that I wanted desperately to reach out to her and let her know she was not alone. To this day, I have no idea what I wrote, but I know it came from my heart and carried a genuine desire to comfort her.
On reading the mother’s anguished missive, I remember experiencing a moment of instant clarity: a note crafted with thoughtfulness and compassion can have an impact and create a ripple effect. I’ve been a believer in the power of note writing ever since.
Heartspoken: the book and the movement
Friends kept asking me for advice on what to say in their notes and letters. A few even begged me to write a guidebook they could refer to. But it wasn’t until the “Great Pause” of the COVID-19 pandemic that I actually had time to write and publish the book that launched the Heartspoken Movement: HEARTSPOKEN: How to Write Notes that Connect, Comfort, Encourage, and Inspire. Since then, I’ve found an amazing community of kindred spirits who have been eager to jump on board and spread the message.
Won’t you join us?
Together, we can change the world…
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